Limerence: A Love Story Like No Other

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Limerence: A Love Story Like No Other

You are convinced you’ve finally found the missing piece. This is what love is supposed to feel like! Or so the story goes.

You may not know it, but you’ve been brewing a love story. You’ve been quietly cataloging all of the things you find attractive and magnetic in others, what feels like “home” and how you want to love and be loved. Your brain has been clocking the qualities of parents, caregivers, those close to you since you were very young.

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Getting Closure - You Can Stop Blaming Yourself For a Relationship Ending

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Getting Closure - You Can Stop Blaming Yourself For a Relationship Ending

It’s time. You’ve beaten yourself up long enough. Your fault, their fault, someone is always to blame. What if there was a kinder, gentler way to get to a place of closure on a tough relationship ending?

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Does Your Relationship Have Asymmetrical Commitment?

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Does Your Relationship Have Asymmetrical Commitment?

When you’re in a relationship with significantly differing commitment levels, the person putting in more is always bound to suffer. The person who commits more, gives more and is willing to make more sacrifices for the other person or for the relationship runs the risk of getting burned because over time you put in more and more emotional energy and emotional investment. Being in a state of ambiguity about a relationship status and your partner’s commitment level can allow asymmetrical commitment to hide out for months and years.

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Help - I've Hit ‘A Dark Night Of the Soul’ In My Relationship

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Help - I've Hit ‘A Dark Night Of the Soul’ In My Relationship

A Dark Night of the Soul in a relationship can derail you. It can build up quietly over months or years or jolt you awake suddenly. All at once, you may question your entire foundation. The questions of Staying or Leaving become involuntary thoughts you bounce between, day and night, then night into day that go up and down with your emotions and moods.

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Why Dating Is Harder When You Have An Anxious Attachment Style And What You Can do About It

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Why Dating Is Harder When You Have An Anxious Attachment Style And What You Can do About It

Is dating feeling like a rollercoaster of emotions and constant anxiety rather than about the fun of meeting new people? Do you go on dates, get really excited about the person you just met, only to be filled with doubt, preoccupied about getting a call back or if you will be rejected? Do you constantly wonder how you can keep someone’s interest or think about ways that you can change yourself to make yourself more attractive to someone to get their full attention? If so you most likely have an Anxious Attachment style.

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