Why Some Relationships Will Never Transition Into Long Term Commitment

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Why Some Relationships Will Never Transition Into Long Term Commitment

Sometimes the people we choose as lovers are not meant to be long term, committed partners. It’s futile to keep beating yourself up if the transition never happens. Don’t blame yourself for the difficulty that may occur if you try and it’s not working out. What makes it even more confusing and difficult is that intense sexual and physical bonding with a lover triggers our emotional attachment system. After physical intimacy that feels amazing, connected and deeply satisfying, we can naturally desire to keep our lover close. This is a sign of your attachment system working to try to create a securely attached bond - which is totally normal!

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Why Dating Is Harder When You Have An Anxious Attachment Style And What You Can do About It

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Why Dating Is Harder When You Have An Anxious Attachment Style And What You Can do About It

Is dating feeling like a rollercoaster of emotions and constant anxiety rather than about the fun of meeting new people? Do you go on dates, get really excited about the person you just met, only to be filled with doubt, preoccupied about getting a call back or if you will be rejected? Do you constantly wonder how you can keep someone’s interest or think about ways that you can change yourself to make yourself more attractive to someone to get their full attention? If so you most likely have an Anxious Attachment style.

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Do You Attract Unavailable Men?

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Photo: @anthonytran

This article was originally posted on YourTango.

It’s painful and exhausting being in a relationship with an unavailable guy.

Sleepless nights rehashing confusing mixed signals, intense, soulful, and connected sex, and then sitting anxiously awaiting for a text, days later.

Waking up with the familiar gut-sinking fear of being ghosted, and the emotional whiplash of uncertainty that comes with being with someone who just can't seem to commit.

If this type of relationship is so painful, why is it so hard to let go?

Click here to read my full article published on YourTango: 5 Reasons Why It's So Hard To Let Go Of Unavailable Men

Struggling with the heartache of being with an unavailable partner? It’s exhausting and takes a toll on your energy and self-confidence.

Contact me for a 30 minute consultation. I’ll take you through my strategies and process to get clarity on your personal situation and reclaim your power.

xOx Steph