Are You in The Relationship Waiting Room?

Have you ever waited in a relationship, holding out, hoping the person you’re with will magically become more committed, affectionate, or invested in your shared future?

Did it eventually happen?

If you’re in this predicament right now, it’s painful.

You have hope mixed with doubt. Your heart hurts. Your head hurts from overthinking everything.

Thinking….maybe a little more time will solve the problem, or if you just seem super patient, more forgiving, really cool and casual - they’ll finally be able to give you more.

You look for hints you’ll be offered more at some point in the future, but then offhanded comments that signal the opposite leave you quitely crushed.

Maybe you’re avoiding the pain of a break-up or fear the separation or being alone.

Maybe you’ve already invested so much of your heart into this person and the dreams of your future together it seems too unthinkable…but something still isn’t quite right.

Each relationship has its own trajectory, but only you can be the one to say - this is enough. This is as far as I can tolerate. This is my threshold for relationship uncertainty or ambiguity.

You might not know where your boundaries are yet, only that you’re in a lot of discomfort and can’t quite pin it down. I get it. I can help you get more clear about what you want and what you need.

If you’re interested or know someone who could benefit from some coaching for RELATIONSHIP CLARITY, I’d love to hear from you.

XO

Coach Steph