Weekly bites on love, romance, limerence, breaking up and keeping it all together.
“The Buddha called impermanence one of the three distinguishing marks of our existence, an incontrovertible fact of life. But it’s something we resist pretty strongly. We think if we did this or didn’t do that, somehow we could achieve a secure, dependable, controllable life. How disappointed we are when things don’t work out quite the way we planned.”
Read MoreIt’s starting to happen: the waking up. It happens when you really, truly know how temporary everything in your life is. How life as you know it can change in a flash. When this happens, suddenly nothing can be taken for granted ever again. Magic is everywhere, and the path to joy and happiness is readily accessible.
The waking up to impermanence can happen on your own over time with wisdom and quiet reflection, a guide (such as a friend, lover or child or even a pet) may enter your life and wake you up, or a life altering event may happen that jolts this truth into your blood, bones and breath….
What are these endless loops we find ourselves in? We can stay stuck in the past and all we see and feel is the damage done in childhood, or traumas we have survived, carrying those threads with us, that tattered sweater we can’t part with. To let go of any painful pattern means taking a novel approach....
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